Last weekend we had our annual Fourth of July barbeque. While we like to invite any American friends who aren't otherwise occupied, we enjoy sharing our national holiday with the French (and other nationalities in our lives at the time), who seem to really have fun with our traditions.
I thought I'd show you how our day went, and you can compare it with your own!
Guaranteed red, white, & blue |
This year's event turned out to be a smaller group than we usually have, as we ran into all kinds of end-of-the year conflicts. As it was also quite hot, we kept our ambiance-creating decorations to a minimum, especially as all our guests have already seen all our ambiance in the past.
Marking the route to the barbecue |
Now that we have a more interesting garden edge on our driveway, it enticed us to create a nice party welcome as everybody trudged up the hill in the heat.
Aren't my little lavenders really starting to fill in nicely?
Such a nice group of friends ... |
Because we were a small group, we decided to use our patio area outside the kitchen again, rather than down on the terrace where we've been the past several years, which is also hotter.
... with whom to pass the afternoon |
As we are attempting to produce an authentic fete, the core menu is the same every year, although our guests might bring something less traditional.
One thing that's become an added tradition is a demonstration of how to make a hamburger. The first time was a desperate attempt to keep the French from eating the meat with a fork and knife and use the bun as a piece of bread, but that was many years (and barbecues) ago. Now it's become a game requested by certain guests who know full well how to make and eat one. So I oblige, in French. Vaudeville at its best!
On making a hamburger ... |
Don't forget to add the tomato slice! |
... in the proper way |
How to eat this? |
Mmm, mmm, mmm |
Open wide, real wide |
Make new friends, keep the old, one is silver, the other gold |
These two friends evoke a rather poignant souvenir. We've now been down south almost as long as we were up north, so we have been doing our barbecue in both regions for quite a few years.
Here we have Nancy, who happens to be another transplanted American, who has been part of our south celebration for most years. But we also have our beloved Jean-Claude, our Paris neighbor, who was always part of our north celebration. However, he's almost always down south in the summer, so we've been able to include him also down here most years, which total quite a few barbecues.
The perfect spot for perfect ambiance and perfect friendship |
It was strange being so under decorated and having such a small group. But with the heat and the limited space due to the Wishing Well (but isn't it looking spiffy?), our guests claimed that this was one of our nicest years.
Keeping it simple and cool |
In the spirit of keeping things simple, especially as we were in the middle of a very busy schedule, I cheated and just served bought ice cream (rather than making all the ice for our homemade version), but complete with toppings and whipped cream!
Who wants vanilla, who wants strawberry? |
To keep it American, though, I also served Oreo cookies, something that never used to be available here.
A friend added some good old cold watermelon, also perfect in the heat!
Small and intimate, the best way to party (so they say) |
As the afternoon cooled down, we all had a good time just sitting around enjoying everybody's company.
While my group activities often include quite an eclectic age group, this time we were all the same generation and a nice mix of North American and French.
Country dancing cowgirls |
Hey, I almost missed the fun! |
I thought I wanted some coffee. |
I'm totally French! |
Personalizing the entrance decor |
I made the mistake of walking my guests down the driveway when they were leaving, as they apparently weren't really quite ready to stop partying.
I don't normally walk down, as it's a steep walk back up. But I was just so thrilled with all my new gardens in the parking area, it's now almost a pleasant place to hang out. Plus, I needed to take down my entry decorations. Apparently, my guests thought we would look nice as decorations. (But then, who wants stuffy friends, which too many of our generation are becoming.)
Mom & Pop: The hot-blooded and the stone cold |
As a parting shot, we were required to sit and mimic our Mom & Pop statue, which happens to be the favorite of our statues among almost all our guests.
I'm so pleased I relocated them from the obscurity they'd been in before, but I never expected I'd need to pose as them!
And thus ended another year's celebration in France of our American Independence Day. I think it ended up being quite successful and enjoyable!
What fun! I think simpler was better, I had heard that you were having un ete tres chaud!
ReplyDeleteFortunately, the heat wave that hit most of the country actually missed our little micro-climate. It was just summer hot, but we didn't get even that last year. Summer is supposed to be hot!
DeleteLooks like a good time was had by all!! Thanks for sharing with us!!
ReplyDeleteHey, how are you?
DeleteI love sharing our experiences over here with those who can't enjoy them with us. And we did have a great time.
I'm doing well!! I'm still living in Central FL. I'm a single mom of 2 girls: Becca (13) and Hannah (10). My mom is doing great! She's enjoying her retirement. Recently, I introduced her to you blog as well...she loves plants and gardening too so I knew she'd be interested in seeing your "work in progress" :)
ReplyDeleteThanks again for blogging!! I love getting a peek inside your side of the world!! :)
This looked like a great party and I love you guys modeling for your mom and pop statue. That's a perfect place for it, btw. Love you demonstrating the hamburger. You look young and happy. Good for you.
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